Wednesday, June 25, 2014

The Toddler's Prayer

Psalm 131 (ESV)
O Lord, my heart is not lifted up;
    my eyes are not raised too high;
I do not occupy myself with things
    too great and too marvelous for me.
But I have calmed and quieted my soul,
    like a weaned child with its mother;
    like a weaned child is my soul within me.
O Israel, hope in the Lord
    from this time forth and forevermore.



            Recently, I’ve had several people come to me with restless hearts and anxious minds.  Plagued by problems that neither they nor I could solve, what they needed more than answers was peace.  If I were a doctor, I could write a prescription for medication—but as a pastor I wrote them a prescription for meditation.  Psalm 131 is one of the best scriptures I know, for dealing with restlessness and anxiety.  I’d like to share it with you today.
            The first two lines deal with humility—a virtue which eclipses anxiety.  Ego says, “I’m worried about my problems, my issues, my situations.”  But the humble heart realizes that there’s a bigger picture than the one it can see.  Instead of imagining himself at the center, the humble person keeps God in the center.  When we take God out of the center and put ourselves there instead, we think that we have to be the solution to everything.  Humility realizes that God is almighty and that we are not.  Knowing this at the core, the humble person can rest free from anxiety.
            The next two lines build upon humility with simplicity.  The simple heart refuses to entangle itself in the world’s complexities that do nothing but bring it down.  Simplicity flies free from the restraints imposed upon it by knotty situations.  It eludes exhausting philosophies and rests instead in uncomplicated singleness of spirit.  The simple answer is usually the best, especially for the person who’s way too stressed.
            The following three lines paint a picture of a toddler in her mother’s arms.  Whereas a nursing baby is constantly clamoring after her mother’s breast for milk, the weaned child can simply lay her head on her mother’s breast and rest in that love.  Without asking for anything, she can unselfishly enjoy her mother’s presence.  Often our anxiety causes us to grasp after God, not wanting God’s presence so much as a solution to our problems.  Like nursing children, we’re more interested in God for our own sake than for the sake of relationship.  But the one who prays the toddler’s prayer simply rests in God’s presence.  Like a child with her head on her mother’s breast, we try to listen for God’s heartbeat, instead of pulling after the Lord for more milk.  When you experience anxiety, try resting with God instead of reaching for God.  You’ll find more peace in God’s arms than appealing before His throne.
            The final two lines can refer not just to the nation of Israel, but to anyone who has the heart of Israel, a name that means “One who wrestles with God.”  We often find ourselves wrestling with God, struggling to understand a complex problem or trying to convince God to do our will through persistent prayer.  The Hebrew word that the ESV translates as “hope” can also be rendered as “wait.”  It’s a practice that involves patient trust in a God who is far more able than you are, to do all that you need on your behalf.  The psalmist reminds us also that our hope is now and forevermore.  In other words, our times are in God’s hands (Ps 31.15). 
            When you feel restless, anxious, or afraid, my prescription for you is a meditation on Psalm 131.  Instead of worrying, fretting, and grasping after God for a solution to your problem, simply trust that He is working His purpose out in your life.  Wait in His arms.  Pray like a toddler who simply enjoys her mother’s presence.  Instead of praying that God will do your will, practice patience and peace as you enjoy the Father’s caress.



Wednesday, June 18, 2014

Be Still

This morning in my quiet time, I was meditating on Psalm 46.10 (ESV), which says, "Be still, and know that I am God. I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth!"  This notion of stillness, and the meaning of stillness, struck me more than ever today, so I thought I'd share it with you.

First, I found many other scriptures that have to do with our need for stillness, such as:

Psalm 37.7 ESV
Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him;
    fret not yourself over the one who prospers in his way,    over the man who carries out evil devices!

Mark 4.39 ESV
And he awoke and rebuked the wind and said to the sea, “Peace! Be still!” And the wind ceased, and there was a great calm.


Next, because my wife calls me a "word nerd," I looked up the etymology of the English word "still," to find out its origins and history.  Here's what I found on the Online Etymology Dictionary:


still (adj.) Look up still at Dictionary.com
Old English stille "motionless, stable, fixed, stationary," from Proto-Germanic *stilli- (cognates: Old Frisian, Middle Low German, Middle Dutch stille, Dutch stil, Old High German stilli, German still), from PIE root *stel- "to put, stand," with derivatives referring to a standing object or place (see stall (n.1)). Meaning "quiet, calm, gentle, silent" emerged in later Old English. Euphemistic for "dead" in stillborn, etc. Still small voice is from KJV:
And he said, Go forth, and stand upon the mount before the LORD. And, behold, the LORD passed by, and a great and strong wind rent the mountains, and brake in pieces the rocks before the LORD; but the LORD was not in the wind: and after the wind an earthquake; but the LORD was not in the earthquake: and after the earthquake a fire; but the LORD was not in the fire: and after the fire a still small voice. [1 Kings 19:11-13]
Used as a conjunction from 1722.
still (n.1) Look up still at Dictionary.com
"distilling apparatus," 1530s, from Middle English stillen "to distill" (c.1300), a variant of distillen (see distill).
still (v.) Look up still at Dictionary.com
Old English stillan "to be still, have rest; to quiet, calm, appease; to stop, restrain," from stille "at rest" (see still (adj.)). Cognate with Old Saxon stillian, Old Norsestilla, Dutch, Old High German, German stillen. Related: Stilledstilling.
still (n.2) Look up still at Dictionary.com
c.1200, "a calm," from still (adj.). Sense of "quietness, the silent part" is from c.1600 (in still of the night). Meaning "a photograph" (as distinguished from a motion picture) is attested from 1916.
still (adv.) Look up still at Dictionary.com
"even now, even then, yet" (as in still standing there), 1530s, from still (adj.) in the sense "without change or cessation, continual" (c.1300); the sense of "even, yet" (as in still more) is from 1730.

So, "Be still" can mean three things:

1 - It can mean being motionless, quiet, and calm.  Taken in this sense, being still before the Lord means listening to God rather than filling the air with your own words.  It can mean settling the spirit rather than ceaselessly striving.  Not only can this be taken as an adjective (being calm), but it can be taken as a noun (being a calm).  Being still means being the calm in the world's storm, being the place where others can go in order to get some rest.

2 - It can mean being "even now" with God.  Or, put more simply, it can mean being in the present moment with the Lord.  Rather than letting your mind drift to failures of the past or future plans, being still can mean simply enjoying God's presence in the present.

3 - It can mean understanding that you are, in fact, a distilling apparatus for God's presence, peace, and Word.  To be a still and know that He is God means to fully process the knowledge of God--to let God's presence drip through you until you can offer an intoxicating draught of God's Holy Spirit to the world (Ephesians 5.18 ESV).

So, this simple phrase, to be still, is packed with meaning.  This one word, still, is a prayer in and of itself.  Simply sit and breathe, repeating this one word with every breath.  As you do so, ask God to make you you to be still, or to be a still.  As you exhale, let the word be your request to God, to give you His stillness.  As you inhale, receive the essence of still-ness that God wants to give you.  You'll find that stillness is worth so much more than striving.